9/28/23
Dear Girls,
We again reiterate our desire for שלום.
Unfortunately, we fundamentally disagree with your approach. We believe that children must unconditionally help their parents. We cannot in good conscience enter into a discussion of preconditions that must be met in order for people to honor their responsibilities.
Having said that, many issues that were raised are valid concerns and we are confident that with proper connections and harmonious relationships, they will be resolved. This should be a natural process and our ability to address these concerns will be commensurate to the level of communication and genuine שלום.
We have managed on our own for the last 4 months and למען השלום we would rather move forward in unison. We believe that if everyone steps up to the plate and fulfills their roles in terms of caring for Ta and Ma, the family will be able to return to a state of שלום. We feel that we owe that (amongst much more) to Ta and Ma.
The same natural process will אי"ה bring us to be מוחל each other. If all are sharing in the caring for Ta and Ma, hopefully that will bring to an atmosphere of warmth and unity, and allow the issues of the past to fade away.
As the healing develops, naturally we will be able to address any outstanding issues in good time and in good context, אי"הin person and in warm tones.
חג כשר ושמח
With love,
The Boys
Dear Girls,
We again reiterate our desire for שלום.
Unfortunately, we fundamentally disagree with your approach. We believe that children must unconditionally help their parents. We cannot in good conscience enter into a discussion of preconditions that must be met in order for people to honor their responsibilities.
Having said that, many issues that were raised are valid concerns and we are confident that with proper connections and harmonious relationships, they will be resolved. This should be a natural process and our ability to address these concerns will be commensurate to the level of communication and genuine שלום.
We have managed on our own for the last 4 months and למען השלום we would rather move forward in unison. We believe that if everyone steps up to the plate and fulfills their roles in terms of caring for Ta and Ma, the family will be able to return to a state of שלום. We feel that we owe that (amongst much more) to Ta and Ma.
The same natural process will אי"ה bring us to be מוחל each other. If all are sharing in the caring for Ta and Ma, hopefully that will bring to an atmosphere of warmth and unity, and allow the issues of the past to fade away.
As the healing develops, naturally we will be able to address any outstanding issues in good time and in good context, אי"הin person and in warm tones.
חג כשר ושמח
With love,
The Boys